How To Stop Struggling With Relationships and BE Happy

What I Used to Think, and What I Know Now...

See if this doesn't sound and feel a bit familiar:

My husband, spouse or partner needs to change his/her behavior in order for me/us to be happy.

My mom (or some other person in my world) is a narcissist and they are making me very unhappy.

My adult children are not meeting my expectations.

Once I changed my thoughts around other people's behavior, and my own happiness, everything changed for me.

Once I began to understand, recognize and acknowledge my role in conflict with others, my life changed at warp speed.

This completely took me from "victim mode" to happy, empowered and confident mode. No longer dependent on anyone else for my happiness.